Think of life as a huge, open garden with many paths that lead in various directions. These pathways can occasionally be blocked by overgrown vines or fallen branches, giving the impression that progress is impossible. However, this notion of obstacles standing in our way isn't always bad; occasionally, it can be a source of inspiration.

American psychoanalyst and aphorist Mason Cooley created a number of witty proverbs that highlight the ironies and complexity of life. According to one such proverb that considers the nature of barriers, there is always something to be learned from a situation that appears to be blocked. It's similar to a gardener having to get past a barrier to gain a better understanding of how the entire garden is laid out.

Cooley's viewpoint inspires us to see past our current problems and view them as chances for development and learning. The obstruction could draw our focus to previously unconsidered areas and take us in previously uncharted directions. When the front door of an old house is locked, this idea is like trying to find a new entrance—there's always another way in.

By adopting this perspective, we can see obstacles as subtle indicators that point us in the direction of what really matters or show us different paths to our objectives rather than as impassable obstacles. Navigating through life's setbacks can lead us to unexpected but fruitful destinations, much like a gardener who must innovate and adapt when faced with obstacles.