During the 18th century, Irish playwright Richard Brinsley Sheridan was active. In addition to his incisive observations about society and human nature, he was well-known for his clever and humorous plays. One of his well-known quotes captures how people respond to compliments and criticism.

Consider yourself strolling through a crowded marketplace where everyone is attempting to draw attention and sell their goods. While some vendors appear unconcerned, others are excited for any praise from onlookers. According to Sheridan, a person who genuinely values their possessions shouldn't be overly thrilled by praise because it can result in foolish conceit. However, if someone is criticized, they may eventually learn about it from a kind friend.

The premise is that it's common to feel arrogant and proud when we receive praise for a job well done. True confidence, however, originates internally and is not dependent on approval from others. On the other hand, since friends are typically open and willing to share both positive and negative feedback, it is not surprising for someone to hear criticism from a kind acquaintance.

Sheridan's remarks serve as a reminder to us that we should accept constructive criticism with an open mind and not allow praise to impair our judgment or make us feel too proud. This keeps us grounded in reality and preserves our humility.